[ she really does just kind of come out and phrase what he's getting at a lot more succinctly and accurately than he thinks he himself has. which is why there's a little slight grin with that. ]
Yeah, that's it. That's pretty much exactly it. And isn't that the whole point of having an opinion anyway? It can change. [ a shrug. ] All the more reason we have to focus at least a little more on who we're sticking with.
[ you want to pick people that you'll still be able to vibe with even if your opinion changes. ]
Then that's a pretty crappy relationship. [ just outright. ] If you let people give you too much, you're always going to wonder what the catch is. And if you let people take too much, then you wonder how soon it'll be before nothing's left.
[ ...shrug. ]
But we'll see if any of that makes a difference here now.
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Yeah, that's it. That's pretty much exactly it. And isn't that the whole point of having an opinion anyway? It can change. [ a shrug. ] All the more reason we have to focus at least a little more on who we're sticking with.
[ you want to pick people that you'll still be able to vibe with even if your opinion changes. ]
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[ being perceived is scary, but being understood is worth it. ]
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Nothing more and nothing less. I'll...have to keep that in mind. [ because it's kind of helpful to hear that perspective. ]
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[ well, she actually doesn't mind if people give everything to her, but she knows other people want more balance? for some reason? ]
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[ ...shrug. ]
But we'll see if any of that makes a difference here now.